Patrick Ponders Particular Points

Can entitled white children please stop claiming that their whiteness and privilege HURTS their...

Mon, 08 Apr 2013 01:51:00 -0400

Can entitled white children please stop claiming that their whiteness and privilege HURTS their chances in the college admissions process? Not only it it grossly untrue, it’s just ignorant and, quite frankly, racist.

Also, can we take a moment to remember that college admissions is not based entirely on past performance but also the potential the school sees in the student. You can have a 4.584930849023 GPA and test scores through the roof and get denied from top schools. It should be that way. College admissions shouldn’t just be about numbers and past test scores. After all, your high test scores and GPA are more likely to indicate affluence than anything else.

This will probably be turned into a longer post at some point, but I am SO PISSED OFF at all these kids. Yes, it sucks you didn’t get into Stanford. But guess what? Neither did 94.31% of the other people who applied.

Picking out new piano music. I am absolutely in love with...

Fri, 29 Mar 2013 01:15:42 -0400

Picking out new piano music. I am absolutely in love with Barber’s Excusions, but this movement will be SO HARD TO PLAY. 7 against 8. Really, Barber? Really?

In which I channel my inner Blaine Anderson, 11th Doctor, and...

Thu, 27 Dec 2012 13:25:58 -0500

In which I channel my inner Blaine Anderson, 11th Doctor, and Jesse Tyler Ferguson and blog about bow ties for Tilde.

tildemag: The Glee, Klaine cover of Baby It’s Cold Outside...

Mon, 03 Dec 2012 20:08:17 -0500

tildemag:

The Glee, Klaine cover of Baby It’s Cold Outside overcame the songs own creep factor (“Say, what’s in this drink”? ew ew ew) to break tender shippers’ hearts across the internet and take fourth place in Patrick’s top Twenty songs you should listen to this Christmas.

Check out the rest of the list here! “Tis the Season: Your Christmas 2012 Playlist”

Blog about ALL the Christmas music!

It’s National Suicide Prevention Day! Take the time today...

Mon, 10 Sep 2012 13:43:05 -0400

It’s National Suicide Prevention Day! Take the time today to educate yourself about warning signs and resources. A good place to start is with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. If you or anyone you know is in need of help, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255)

Chopin - Nocturne in c-sharp minor

Fri, 17 Aug 2012 19:42:37 -0400

Chopin - Nocturne in c-sharp minor

Chopin - Nocturne in c minor

Fri, 17 Aug 2012 19:40:49 -0400

Chopin - Nocturne in c minor

Chopin - Nocturne in e minor

Fri, 17 Aug 2012 19:38:05 -0400

Chopin - Nocturne in e minor

I’ve picked out 3 Chopin Nocturnes to learn since I now have regular access to a piano! They...

Fri, 17 Aug 2012 19:35:36 -0400

I’ve picked out 3 Chopin Nocturnes to learn since I now have regular access to a piano! They will be my next three posts.

Fuck Yeah, History Major Heraldic Beast: Today is Saint Patrick's Day!

Sat, 17 Mar 2012 18:26:23 -0400

Fuck Yeah, History Major Heraldic Beast: Today is Saint Patrick's Day!:

fyeahhistorymajorheraldicbeast:

Here are some facts about the man behind everyone’s favorite corrupted feast day:

He might have been two people

One of those people was Welsh

The other was possibly French (or, well, Gaulish)

That one pretty much did jack on his mission

There had been Christianity in Ireland before either…

"DeMarco and Lister’s findings reach beyond the world of computer programmers. A mountain of..."

Sun, 11 Mar 2012 16:15:43 -0400

““DeMarco and Lister’s findings reach beyond the world of computer programmers. A mountain of recent data on open-plan offices from many different industries corroborates the results of the games. Open-plan offices have been found to reduce productivity and impair memory. They’re associated with high staff turnover. They make people sick, hostile, unmotivated, and insecure. Open-plan workers…have fewer personal and confidential conversations with colleagues. They’re often subject to loud and uncontrollable noise, which raises heart rates; releases cortisol, the body’s fight-or-flight “stress” hormone; and makes people socially distant, quick to anger, aggressive, and slow to help others.””

- Susan Cain’s Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking (page 84)

memoriesbecomelegend: The finished boxes for National Stress...

Fri, 09 Mar 2012 15:31:49 -0500

memoriesbecomelegend:

The finished boxes for National Stress Øut Day! (Taken with instagram)

160+ in less than 75 minutes! :D

"And, you know, politics aside, the success of Sarah Palin and women like her is good for all women -..."

Sat, 03 Mar 2012 13:28:44 -0500

“And, you know, politics aside, the success of Sarah Palin and women like her is good for all women - except, of course, those who will end up, you know, like, paying for their own rape kit ‘n stuff. But for everyone else, it’s a win-win. Unless you’re a gay woman who wants to marry your partner of 20 years - whatever. But for most women, the success of conservative women is good for all of us. Unless you believe in evolution. You know - actually, I take it back. The whole thing’s a disaster.”

- Tina Fey’s Bossypants

Check out this outstanding message from Nicole Teitelbaum and...

Thu, 01 Mar 2012 15:10:02 -0500

Check out this outstanding message from Nicole Teitelbaum and Active Minds at Smith! It’s number two in today’s series of videos for National Eating Disorders Awareness Week!

Want to share your message? Find more information at www.activeminds.org/eatingdisorders

Another “Everybody Knows Somebody” video, this time...

Thu, 01 Mar 2012 11:12:23 -0500

Another “Everybody Knows Somebody” video, this time from my wonderful coworker, Becky.

"Introversion — along with its cousins sensitivity, seriousness, and shyness — is now a second-class..."

Wed, 29 Feb 2012 12:00:34 -0500

“Introversion — along with its cousins sensitivity, seriousness, and shyness — is now a second-class personality trait, somewhere between a disappointment and a pathology. Introverts living under the Extrovert Ideal are like women living in a man’s world, discounted because it goes to the core of who they are. Extroversion is an enormously appealing personality trait, but we’ve turned it into an oppressive standard to which most of us feel we must conform.””

- Susan Cain, from the book “Quiet: The power of introverts in a world that can’t stop talking” (via stitchpunk)

What Should I Say? Tips for talking to a friend who may be struggling with an eating disorder

Tue, 28 Feb 2012 15:06:06 -0500

If you are worried about your friend’s eating behaviors or attitudes, it is important to express your concerns in a loving and supportive way. It is also necessary to discuss your worries early on, rather than waiting until your friend has endured many of the damaging physical and emotional effects of eating disorders. In a private and relaxed setting, talk to your friend in a calm and caring way about the specific things you have seen or felt that have caused you to worry.

What to Say—Step by Step

Set a time to talk. Set aside a time for a private, respectful meeting with your friend to discuss your concerns openly and honestly in a caring, supportive way. Make sure you will be some place away from other distractions.

Communicate your concerns. Share your memories of specific times when you felt concerned about your friend’s eating or exercise behaviors. Explain that you think these things may indicate that there could be a problem that needs professional attention.

Ask your friend to explore these concerns with a counselor, doctor, nutritionist, or other health professional who is knowledgeable about eating issues. If you feel comfortable doing so, offer to help your friend make an appointment or accompany your friend on their first visit.

Avoid conflicts or a battle of the wills with your friend. If your friend refuses to acknowledge that there is a problem, or any reason for you to be concerned, restate your feelings and the reasons for them and leave yourself open and available as a supportive listener.

Avoid placing shame, blame, or guilt on your friend regarding their actions or attitudes. Do not use accusatory “you” statements like, “You just need to eat.” Or, “You are acting irresponsibly.” Instead, use “I” statements. For example: “I’m concerned about you because you refuse to eat breakfast or lunch.” Or, “It makes me afraid to hear you vomiting.”

Avoid giving simple solutions. For example, “If you’d just stop, then everything would be fine!”

Express your continued support. Remind your friend that you care and want your friend to be healthy and happy.

After talking with your friend, if you are still concerned with their health and safety, find a trusted adult or medical professional to talk to. This is probably a challenging time for both of you. It could be helpful for you, as well as your friend, to discuss your concerns and seek assistance and support from a professional.

Eating Disorders Helpline: 1-800-931-2237

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Mon, 27 Feb 2012 15:06:05 -0500

Today marks the first day of National Eating Disorders Awareness...

Sun, 26 Feb 2012 15:32:00 -0500

Today marks the first day of National Eating Disorders Awareness Week, an annual educational campaign sponsored by the National Eating Disorders Association. As part of this week, I’ll be posting facts, statistics, and resources related to eating disorders.

If you are struggling with an eating disorder, please contact the National Eating Disorders Helpline: 1-800-931-2237.

activemindshampshire: National Eating Disorder Awareness...

Sun, 26 Feb 2012 15:23:16 -0500

activemindshampshire:

National Eating Disorder Awareness Week February 27th - March 3rd

My amazing coworker, Maggie. Want more information on eating disorders or where to get help? Visit www.nationaleatingdisorders.org.

Patrick Ponders Particular Points

Can entitled white children please stop claiming that their whiteness and privilege HURTS their...

Picking out new piano music. I am absolutely in love with...

In which I channel my inner Blaine Anderson, 11th Doctor, and...

tildemag: The Glee, Klaine cover of Baby It’s Cold Outside...

It’s National Suicide Prevention Day! Take the time today...

Chopin - Nocturne in c-sharp minor

Chopin - Nocturne in c minor

Chopin - Nocturne in e minor

I’ve picked out 3 Chopin Nocturnes to learn since I now have regular access to a piano! They...

Fuck Yeah, History Major Heraldic Beast: Today is Saint Patrick's Day!

"DeMarco and Lister’s findings reach beyond the world of computer programmers. A mountain of..."

memoriesbecomelegend: The finished boxes for National Stress...

"And, you know, politics aside, the success of Sarah Palin and women like her is good for all women -..."

Check out this outstanding message from Nicole Teitelbaum and...

Check out this outstanding message from Nicole Teitelbaum and Active Minds at Smith! It’s number two in today’s series of videos for National Eating Disorders Awareness Week! Want to share your message? Find more information at www.activeminds.org/eatingdisorders

Another “Everybody Knows Somebody” video, this time...

"Introversion — along with its cousins sensitivity, seriousness, and shyness — is now a second-class..."

What Should I Say? Tips for talking to a friend who may be struggling with an eating disorder

Photo

Today marks the first day of National Eating Disorders Awareness...

activemindshampshire: National Eating Disorder Awareness...

Check out this outstanding message from Nicole Teitelbaum and Active Minds at Smith! It’s number two in today’s series of videos for National Eating Disorders Awareness Week!

Want to share your message? Find more information at www.activeminds.org/eatingdisorders